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Workplace Crush

Author: Dob Dobson
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Ok here i go... Cant talk to my friends about this so you are going to hear it...

First off i am engaged to a wonderful woman that i don't want to hurt... That being said for the last 4 months i have had a crush on one of my subordinates. She is younger than me by 10 years and a tall red head. Born and raised in missouri and if you just listened to her voice with your eyes closed you can picture her in overalls with a bit of straw in her mouth. Between the image and her voice i melt!!!

She has had a hard life... Moved several times...And lost all of her belongings. Now she works for me.

A week ago she broke up with her bf and left the apartment. With no place to go she was in a shelter. I am a nice guy and i don't want her to live like that. Also i swoon over her duh.

So i asked her to move in with me and my fiancee.... Yeah you guessed it! trouble in the making. I have not made any advances towards her and will not. But i do bend over backwards for her and have given her money for clothes and food. I also gave her a cell phone.. Yeah double trouble... She has agreed to pay back the money i have lent her.

But deep down i don't want her to leave... Yes it's fucked up since my fiancee lives with me too!! I don't want to see her in a bad place or with a bad person and i really don't want her to go... What in holly hell have i done!!!! She sleeps on my couch and i go up stair wanting to kiss her goodnight!!!! Help!!! We are friends and i don't want to loose that either. Why do i keep thinking of her!!!



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1 Comment

  1. Hey Dob,

    Thank you for posting your confession. This is advice from one man to another who is not in the situation. I have never been in your situation, but I have been in some crazy situations where I had let my dick do the thinking for me. It is often a constant battle daily that most men have. Fortunately, it has never led me to have any kids!

    Unfortunately, no man has ever stayed out of trouble by listening to his dick. You must think with your logical brain and that screams to you to do the right thing! You know what it is: Get her out. Get her away from you.

    Lets think about the situation: You have two women living in your house and you must be a fairly attractive man. You have a woman who loves you and a woman who needs your help. Your fiancee should have never agreed to it. It is amazing you got as far as discussing it with her, and her agreeing to such a situation. But nothing good was ever going to come from it.

    Even if it did - a threesome with this woman and your fiancee? No, that's strictly in the porn world for a reason, and rarely happens in real life. Even if your fiancee agreed to you doing anything with this woman - it could only lead to feelings of jealousy. So get all those naughty dirty thoughts out of your head because they aren't going to happen and shouldn't happen.

    Your fiancee must love you so much to have agreed with such an arrangement. It would have been a smarter choice for you both to have agreed to put her up in the hotel for a week or two, and had her pay her way if she wanted to stay longer, and that would have been the more optimal choice.

    Nothing good can come from allowing this woman to stay inside your house. These thoughts running through your head are fantasy. What happens if you acted upon them? Is the 5 to 10 minutes of sex really worth destroying the love that a good woman has for you?

    The best way to avoid temptation is to remove it. There is a reason I don't keep ice cream in the freezer, cookies in the pantry, or any soda in the fridge. You are in serious temptation right now and you need to rid it. In order to get this woman out of your house, offer to put this woman in a hotel for a week - tell her that is all you can afford, and she must find her own way after that. It was never your problem to take care of her. She chose to leave her boyfriend. She chose to leave the apartment they were living in. All her choices. She also did not leave him to be with you. You offered to help. She will take anything she can get.

    You made her choices your problem, and pretty soon, if nothing changes very soon, you are going to have some serious problems. Go into the bathroom, masturbate, get it out of your system, and move on. Trust me. The love of a good woman is hard to find and not worth risking at all.

    The act of cheating can last all of 2 minutes, but the pain of the actions of cheating will last a lifetime. This woman isn't into you anyway. She is at a low point in her life and needed someone to help her out. You did, but you need to get on with your life as well, and force her to get on with hers.

    Once she is gone, put the whole situation in the past, don't talk about it. And do all you can to show your fiancee that you love her and that she is the only woman for you and the only woman you ever think about.

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  • First off i am engaged to a wonderful woman that i don't want to hurt... That being said for the last 4 months i have had a crush on one of my subordinates.
  • She is younger than me by 10 years and a tall red head.
  • She has had a hard life... Moved several times...And lost all of her belongings. Now she works for me.
  • I am a nice guy and i don't want her to live like that so I asked her to move in with me and my fiancee.
  • i do bend over backwards for her and have given her money for clothes and food, and gave her a cellphone.
  • She sleeps on my couch and i go up stair wanting to kiss her goodnight, why do I keep thinking of her!